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Soul​ Sync

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Applied Neuroscience Consulting

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This platform hosts spaces such as Cultural Spa, Erotica Infused Club to foster trauma-informed healing practices, complementary therapies and energize curious minds in the fields of sexuality.

Cultural Spa: Healing Inherited Wounds

Cultural Spa is a sanctuary dedicated to the profound healing of inherited wounds. Immerse yourself in a therapeutic environment that honors diverse cultural legacies, offering a tailored approach to healing emotional and ancestral traumas. Drawn from a rich tapestry of global traditions, individuals are guided on a transformative journey toward self-discovery, resilience, and renewal. Through mindful practices, mandala art therapy, chakra healing and rhythmic therapies, Cultural Spa invites you to embark on a unique path to healing, reclaiming your cultural roots and fostering a deep sense of inner balance.

Follow along through 3 different stylized workshops: Somatic Synergy, Cognitive Harmony and Integrated Insight.

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Erotica Infused Club (EIC)

Entitled as the Erotica Infused Club (EIC), the acronym shares its roots with the East India Company, a British trading company established under the name of the Queen with its base of operations in colonial India.
One of the by-products of colonization was erotophobia that was ingrained into the local culture, so much so that even after years of independence, several post-colonial countries still operate within the confines of patriarchy and erotophobia. 
The Erotica Infused Club, named after it's oppressor is a platform created for the safe expression of erotica of any form.
So dig in, dig deep and recruit your imagination to contribute to the most erotic of expressions featuring a variety of lifestyles, kinks and fetishes.

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EXPERTISE

  • Psycho-Neuro-Immunological Interventions

  • Applied Behavioral Neuroendocrinology

  • Neurobiology of Kink/BDSM, Pleasure Pathways

  • Racial Trauma & Post-Colonial Trauma (Post-colonial sexual repression and de-sexualization)

  • Sexual Abuse Recovery, Trauma Re-enactment & Re-traumatization

  • Religious & Spiritual Trauma Recovery

  • Childhood Trauma and Inner Child Healing

  • Hypervigilance and Dissociation during Intimacy

  • Emotional Burnout and Erotic Fatigue

  • Hypersexuality or sexual numbing as trauma responses

  • Consent and Boundary Violations

  • Compulsive Sexual Behaviors (excessive porn use, high-risk sexual behaviors like unprotected sex and sex in unsafe environments, etc.)

  • Mismatched libido between partners

  • Intimacy Avoidance and Emotional Detachment

  • Loss of genital sensation or numbness post-trauma

  • Shame, Guilt & Disgust Sexual Scripts (Shame around masturbation or self-touch, shame-based sexual avoidance, etc.)

  • Body Image Distortion Related to Commodification

  • Relationship Ruptures Due to Stigma or Disclosure

  • Polyamory-Related Relational Conflict

  • Navigating sex while neuro-spicy

 

Kink-affirming • Sex Worker-affirming • LGBTQQIA2SP-centered 

BIPOC-centered • Historically underrepresented community-informed • Non-immigrant, Immigrant, Refugee and Asylum seekers-inclusive consultations

I brought in a case involving a man struggling with what he labeled 'porn addiction.' He was experiencing erectile issues in partnered sex but not during solo porn use, and he reported escalating shame and binge behaviors after attempts to quit. 
The advice I received completely re-oriented my approach: I was reminded that ‘porn addiction’ doesn’t follow traditional addiction circuitry like substance use disorders do.​ Instead, we looked at how Pornography-related Problems arising from Moral Incongruence (PPMI) to understand this behavior. The most powerful reframe Nishita shared was: "Treat porn as medicine, not poison." This unlocked an entirely new way of supporting the client — without reinforcing shame, guilt, or disgust.
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Conditions

Addressed

  • Racial Trauma & Post-Colonial Trauma (Post-colonial sexual repression and de-sexualization)

  • Sexual Abuse Recovery, Trauma Re-enactment & Re-traumatization

  • Religious & Spiritual Trauma Recovery

  • Childhood Trauma and Inner Child Healing

  • Hypervigilance and Dissociation during Intimacy

  • Emotional Burnout and Erotic Fatigue

  • Hypersexuality or sexual numbing as trauma responses

  • Consent and Boundary Violations

  • Compulsive Sexual Behaviors (excessive porn use, high-risk sexual behaviors like unprotected sex and sex in unsafe environments, etc.)

  • Shame around masturbation or self-touch

  • Mismatched libido between partners

  • Intimacy Avoidance and Emotional Detachment

  • Loss of genital sensation or numbness post-trauma

  • Shame, Guilt & Disgust Loops

  • Body Image Distortion Related to Commodification

  • Relationship Ruptures Due to Stigma or Disclosure

  • Shame-Based Sexual Avoidance

  • Polyamory-Related Relational Conflict

  • Navigating sex while neurospicy

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Note: If experiencing financial difficulties, please reach out to request a discounted link.

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Art Therapy

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The Kiffness x Cala - I Go Meow (Singing Cat)
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Yearning (feat. Fathi Aljarah)
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Rilli I Fahad Hussayn x @zainubj.khawaja
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THE WOLF SONG - Nordic music - Vargsången
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Trio Mandili - Kakhuri
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Coke Studio Season 10| Laal Meri Pat| Quratulain Balouch ft. Akbar Ali & Arieb Azhar
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Constantinople
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Albela Sajan Tabla and Sons Cover
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Jelem Jelem - Romani Song - Jarko Jovanovic - Oliver Rajamani
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Music Therapy

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