
About Me.
Nishita Rao is the first Indian to be certified by AASECT as a Sexuality Educator. She is also a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator from ISEE with a background in Neuroendocrinology (MS Neuroscience) and Genetics (BE Biotechnology).
Nishita is also a Behavioral Neuroscience Coach and a Reiki Grandmaster who integrates Eastern and Western modalities into her practice. She approaches healing through Attachment-Based Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Trauma-Focused Interventions, Eastern Therapeutic Modalities, Integrative Therapy, and Person-Centered Therapy.
Her diverse methodologies include Mandala Art Therapy, Raga Therapy (inspired by 12th-century Indian music), Bibliotherapy, Mindfulness, Pranayama (Breathwork), Aromatherapy, Usui (Jikidem) Reiki, Karuna Reiki, and Seichem Reiki, Chakra Balancing, Body Mapping, Tea Blending Therapy, and more.
Nishita's areas of expertise encompass Sexual Abuse Recovery, Stress Management, Indigenous Healing Practices, Decolonial Therapy, Generational and Intergenerational Trauma Therapy, and Land-Based Therapy. Her work is BIPOC-affirming and LGBTQQIA2SP+-affirming, ensuring an inclusive and culturally sensitive healing environment.
As the founder of Pillow Talk With Nixi, Nishita has spearheaded several pioneering educational and therapeutic initiatives, including:
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InclusiSex Studies Initiative, offering a holistic lens on Gender and Sexuality Studies
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Curious Research Cortex, focusing on the intersections of human sexuality with neuroscience, genetics, anthropology, history, and biopolitics
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Soul Sync Sanctuary, a culturally sensitive therapeutic space for healing emotional and ancestral trauma.
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Sex Scholars Library, a curated virtual collection of BIPOC-authored books for sexuality professionals.
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Sexual Revolution, featuring Unfiltered, Unapologetic and Unconventional conversations with leading sexuality professionals.
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South Asian Sexuality Professionals Alliance, fostering empowerment and inclusivity within the South Asian diaspora and advancing culturally relevant sex education.
Currently, Nishita is also pursuing advanced training with the Veterans Health Administration (Neurobiology of Trauma), the Alberta Family Wellness Initiative (Brain Architecture) and Zepp Wellness (Trauma-informed Therapy for sex workers who have survived sexual assault).
As an Interdisciplinary scientist, Nishita's research delves into:
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Neuroscience
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Onset of Social Behavior Circuit
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Social Behavior under Stress
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Neurogenic Throat Sensitivities
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Sexual Sciences
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Challenging Amatonormativity: The Sexed Brain
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Sexploration Quest
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Development of Fetish Constellation Groups
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Trauma Sciences
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Trauma Resonance in Attachment Styles
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Trauma-driven behavioral profiles in relationships
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Epigenetics & the science of Intergenerational Trauma Transference
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Anthropology
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Challenging Orientalism & Sexualization of Bellydance
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Choreographing Erasure: Reinvention of SWer Dance and Identity
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Linguistic Substitution and Pedagogical Lineage in the Lyrical Carnatic Tradition
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Sex, Age and Iconoclasm: Discoursive Contests in Power, Taboo & the Crone Figure
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Gendered Perceptions of Color & its Representations within BIPOC communities
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Biopolitics
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Femme Sculpture: Constructing a socio-cultural-politico-biological woman
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Proto-Geopolitics and the Ottoman State
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Her work embodies a commitment to education, empowerment, and holistic transformation, establishing her as a distinguished voice in the fields of human sexuality, trauma-informed care, and cultural inclusivity.

Language Proficiency
Understand
English>Hindi>Urdu>Kannada>Sanskrit>Bengali>Punjabi
Talk
English>Hindi>Urdu>Kannada>Sanskrit
Write
English>Hindi>Sanskrit
Sing
Telugu>Sanskrit>Bengali> Kannada>Hindi>Urdu> English>Tamil>Malayalam> Punjabi>Japanese
Education
July, 2025
Zepp Wellness, Regina, SK, Canada
Equitable Care Certification
Certification by the Zepp Wellness Center, an approved AASECT CE provider designed to provide 36 hours of comprehensive training in sex worker therapy, alongside supervision.
July 2025
Alberta Family Wellness Initiative, Calgary, AB, Canada
Brain Story Certification
Certification by the University of Oxford, in partnership with the Alberta Family Wellness Initiative, to deliver trauma-informed neuroscience courses that delve into brain development, genetics, ACES, ADHD, Addiction and PTSD.
May 2024
Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, Tucson, AZ, U.S.A
Certificate of Holistic Sex Educator (CHSE)
Certified by the Institute of Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, an approved AASECT CE provider designed to meet the 200+ hours of comprehensive training requirement, alongside 20+ hours of Supervision.
Feb 2022
State University of New York, Buffalo, NY, U.S.A
Master of Science, Neuroscience
Certified by the Institute of Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, an approved AASECT CE provider designed to meet the 200+ hours of comprehensive training requirement, alongside 20+ hours of Supervision.
May 2017
R.V. College of Engineering, Bangalore, KA, India
Bachelor of Engineering, Biotechnology
Certified by the Institute of Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, an approved AASECT CE provider designed to meet the 200+ hours of comprehensive training requirement, alongside 20+ hours of Supervision.
Past Lectures
Vasopressin & Social Behavior | Student Engagement Xchange (S.E.X) Group | 01/06/2022 |
Neurobiology of Trauma | Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment | 02/11/2022 |
Journey Through Time: Sex and LGBTQ+ Tales and Imageries from Ancient India | Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment | 07/12/2022 |
Attachment, a Social Bond | Sun Academy, Georgia State University | 23/01/2023 |
Attachment, a Social Bond | Student Engagement Xchange (S.E.X) Group | 01/02/2023 |
Decoding Scientific Papers and Language | Student Engagement Xchange (S.E.X) Group | 22/02/2023 |
Neurobiology of Trauma: Applications for Sex Education | Sex Ed Lecture Series | 29/03/2023 |
Biological Basis for Mate Preferences | Professional Organization of Sexuality Educators (P.O.S.E) Group | 05/04/2023 |
Neurobiology of Trauma | Sex Positive World | 10/09/2023 |
Challenging Amatonormativity: Re-introducing the Hidden World of Neuroscience | Sex Ed Lecture Series | 04/10/2023 |
Challenging Amatonormativity: Re-introducing the Hidden World of Neuroscience | Sex Positive World | 18/02/2024 |
Chromvolution: The Adventures of Pink | Sex Ed Lecture Series | 13/03/2024 |
Journey Through Time: Sex and LGBTQ+ Tales and Imageries from Ancient India | AASECT Tantra SIG | 21/04/2024 |
Tears: A Super Power| The Body’s Natural Defense Mechanism | AASECT Sex & Aging SIG | 08/10/2024 |
Past Workshops
Cultural Spa: Healing Inherited Wounds | Sexuality Liberators and Movers (S.L.A.M) Conference | 02/05/2024 |
Naughty Playoffs | Kink Between The Lines Conference | 27/09/2024 |
Bhoga, Bheda, Bhakti: Desire, Duality, and Devotion in Tantric Carnatic Music | Sex Down South Conference | 04/09/2025 |
Sexploration Quest: Commence Your Journey! | Kink Between The Lines Conference | 07/11/2025 |
Erotica Infused Club (EIC) | Student Engagement Xchange (S.E.X) Group | 04/01/2023 |
Cultural Spa: Healing Inherited Attachment Wounds | Student Engagement Xchange (S.E.X) Group | 16/03/2023 |
Pillow Talk Salon | Sex Positive World | 11/06/2023 |
Neurosculpting Workshop: Cognitive Blueprint Lab | Sex Positive World | 07/10/2023 |
Cultural Spa: Healing Inherited Wounds | Sex Positive World | 08/10/2023 |
Naughty Playoffs | Sex Positive World | 19/01/2024 |
Conferences
Puberty dependence of (AVP) expression in the BNST and MeA (Social Behavior Circuit) [Poster] | Kinsey Institute 75th Anniversary Research Symposium | 06/09/2022 |
Challenging Amatonormativity: Re-introducing the Hidden World of Biology [Poster] | AASECT Conference | 14/06/2024 |
The Witchy Archetypes: Sluts, Lesbians and Hags | Unraveling Societal Biases in Reproductive Choice [New School Webinar] | Let’s Talk About Sex Conference | 23/08/2024 |
Journey Through Time: Sex and LGBTQ+ Tales and Imageries from Ancient India [Scholarly Presentation] | Kink Between The Lines Conference | 27/09/2024 |
Challenging Orientalism: Confronting Sexualization of Belly dance [Scholarly Presentation] | ABSC International Lecture Series VII | 17/10/2024 |
Chromvolution: The Adventures of Pink [Scholarly Presentation] | ABSC Spring Roundtable Series X | 22/04/2025 |
The Neuroscience of Pain and Pleasure: An Exploration into BDSM [Scholarly Presentation] | Kink Between The Lines Conference | 07/11/2025 |

Groups & Societies
Equitable Care | Zepp Wellness Center | Regina, SK, Canada |
Sex Positive SF | Sex-Positive World | Portland, OR, USA |
Research Fellows Group | Community-Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative Sexualities | College Park, MD, USA |
Sexual Coercion/Aggression and Prevention Special Interest Group | The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality | New York, NY, USA |
Learning Management Systems (Portal) | BDSM Reimagining Inclusion Through Equity | Stockholm, Sweden |
Curriculum Development (Program) | BDSM Reimagining Inclusion Through Equity | Stockholm, Sweden |
Tantra Special Interest Group | American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists | Chicago, IL, USA |
Somatic Sexuality Professionals Special Interest Group | American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists | Chicago, IL, USA |
Sexuality Educators Special Interest Group | American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists | Chicago, IL, USA |
Sexuality & Aging Special Interest Group | American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists | Chicago, IL, USA |
People of Color Special Interest Group | American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists | Chicago, IL, USA |
Minor Attracted Persons Special Interest Group | American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists | Chicago, IL, USA |
Medical Sexology Special Interest Group | American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists | Chicago, IL, USA |