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About Me.

Nishita Rao is the first Indian to be certified by AASECT as a Sexuality Educator. She is also a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator from ISEE with a background in Neuroendocrinology (MS Neuroscience) and Genetics (BE Biotechnology)


Nishita is also a Behavioral Neuroscience Coach and a Reiki Grandmaster who integrates Eastern and Western modalities into her practice. She approaches healing through Attachment-Based Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Trauma-Focused Interventions, Eastern Therapeutic Modalities, Integrative Therapy, and Person-Centered Therapy.


Her diverse methodologies include Mandala Art Therapy, Raga Therapy (inspired by 12th-century Indian music), Bibliotherapy, Mindfulness, Pranayama (Breathwork), Aromatherapy, Usui (Jikidem) Reiki, Karuna Reiki, and Seichem Reiki, Chakra Balancing, Body Mapping, Tea Blending Therapy, and more.


Nishita's areas of expertise encompass Sexual Abuse Recovery, Stress Management, Indigenous Healing Practices, Decolonial Therapy, Generational and Intergenerational Trauma Therapy, and Land-Based Therapy. Her work is BIPOC-affirming and LGBTQQIA2SP+-affirming, ensuring an inclusive and culturally sensitive healing environment.

As the founder of Pillow Talk With Nixi, Nishita has spearheaded several pioneering educational and therapeutic initiatives, including:

  • InclusiSex Studies Initiative, offering a holistic lens on Gender and Sexuality Studies

  • Curious Research Cortex, focusing on the intersections of human sexuality with neuroscience, genetics, anthropology, history, and biopolitics

  • Soul Sync Sanctuary, a culturally sensitive therapeutic space for healing emotional and ancestral trauma.

  • Sex Scholars Library, a curated virtual collection of BIPOC-authored books for sexuality professionals.

  • Sexual Revolution, featuring Unfiltered, Unapologetic and Unconventional conversations with leading sexuality professionals.

  • South Asian Sexuality Professionals Alliance, fostering empowerment and inclusivity within the South Asian diaspora and advancing culturally relevant sex education.

 

Currently, Nishita is also pursuing advanced training with the Veterans Health Administration (Neurobiology of Trauma), the Alberta Family Wellness Initiative (Brain Architecture) and Zepp Wellness (Trauma-informed Therapy for sex workers who have survived sexual assault).

As an Interdisciplinary scientist, Nishita's research delves into:

  • Neuroscience

    • Onset of Social Behavior Circuit

    • Social Behavior under Stress

    • Neurogenic Throat Sensitivities 

  • Sexual Sciences

    • Challenging Amatonormativity: The Sexed Brain

    • Sexploration Quest​

    • Development of Fetish Constellation Groups

  • Trauma Sciences

    • Trauma Resonance in Attachment Styles​

    • Trauma-driven behavioral profiles in relationships

    • Epigenetics & the science of Intergenerational Trauma Transference

  • Anthropology

    • ​Challenging Orientalism & Sexualization of Bellydance​

    • Choreographing Erasure: Reinvention of SWer Dance and Identity 

    • Linguistic Substitution and Pedagogical Lineage in the Lyrical Carnatic Tradition

    • Sex, Age and Iconoclasm: Discoursive Contests in Power, Taboo & the Crone Figure

    • Gendered Perceptions of Color & its Representations within BIPOC communities

  • Biopolitics

    • Femme Sculpture: Constructing a socio-cultural-politico-biological woman

    • Proto-Geopolitics and the Ottoman State


Her work embodies a commitment to education, empowerment, and holistic transformation, establishing her as a distinguished voice in the fields of human sexuality, trauma-informed care, and cultural inclusivity.

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Language Proficiency

Understand

English>Hindi>Urdu>Kannada>Sanskrit>Bengali>Punjabi

Talk

English>Hindi>Urdu>Kannada>Sanskrit

Write

English>Hindi>Sanskrit

Sing

Telugu>Sanskrit>Bengali> Kannada>Hindi>Urdu> English>Tamil>Malayalam> Punjabi>Japanese

Education

July, 2025

Zepp Wellness, Regina, SK, Canada

Equitable Care Certification
Certification by the Zepp Wellness Center, an approved AASECT CE provider designed to provide 36 hours of comprehensive training in sex worker therapy, alongside supervision.

July 2025

Alberta Family Wellness Initiative, Calgary, AB, Canada

Brain Story Certification

Certification by the University of Oxford, in partnership with the Alberta Family Wellness Initiative, to deliver trauma-informed neuroscience courses that delve into brain development, genetics, ACES, ADHD, Addiction and PTSD.

May 2024

Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, Tucson, AZ, U.S.A

Certificate of Holistic Sex Educator (CHSE)

Certified by the Institute of Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, an approved AASECT CE provider designed to meet the 200+ hours of comprehensive training requirement, alongside 20+ hours of Supervision.

Feb 2022

State University of New York, Buffalo, NY, U.S.A

Master of Science, Neuroscience

Certified by the Institute of Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, an approved AASECT CE provider designed to meet the 200+ hours of comprehensive training requirement, alongside 20+ hours of Supervision.

May 2017

R.V. College of Engineering, Bangalore, KA, India

Bachelor of Engineering, Biotechnology

Certified by the Institute of Sexuality Education and Enlightenment, an approved AASECT CE provider designed to meet the 200+ hours of comprehensive training requirement, alongside 20+ hours of Supervision.

Past Lectures

Vasopressin & Social Behavior
Student Engagement Xchange (S.E.X) Group
01/06/2022
Neurobiology of Trauma
Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment
02/11/2022
Journey Through Time: Sex and LGBTQ+ Tales and Imageries from Ancient India
Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment
07/12/2022
Attachment, a Social Bond
Sun Academy, Georgia State University
23/01/2023
Attachment, a Social Bond
Student Engagement Xchange (S.E.X) Group
01/02/2023
Decoding Scientific Papers and Language
Student Engagement Xchange (S.E.X) Group
22/02/2023
Neurobiology of Trauma: Applications for Sex Education
Sex Ed Lecture Series
29/03/2023
Biological Basis for Mate Preferences
Professional Organization of Sexuality Educators (P.O.S.E) Group
05/04/2023
Neurobiology of Trauma
Sex Positive World
10/09/2023
Challenging Amatonormativity: Re-introducing the Hidden World of Neuroscience
Sex Ed Lecture Series
04/10/2023
Challenging Amatonormativity: Re-introducing the Hidden World of Neuroscience
Sex Positive World
18/02/2024
Chromvolution: The Adventures of Pink
Sex Ed Lecture Series
13/03/2024
Journey Through Time: Sex and LGBTQ+ Tales and Imageries from Ancient India
AASECT Tantra SIG
21/04/2024
Tears: A Super Power| The Body’s Natural Defense Mechanism
AASECT Sex & Aging SIG
08/10/2024

Past Workshops

Cultural Spa: Healing Inherited Wounds
Sexuality Liberators and Movers (S.L.A.M) Conference
02/05/2024
Naughty Playoffs
Kink Between The Lines Conference
27/09/2024
Bhoga, Bheda, Bhakti: Desire, Duality, and Devotion in Tantric Carnatic Music
Sex Down South Conference
04/09/2025
Sexploration Quest: Commence Your Journey!
Kink Between The Lines Conference
07/11/2025
Erotica Infused Club (EIC)
Student Engagement Xchange (S.E.X) Group
04/01/2023
Cultural Spa: Healing Inherited Attachment Wounds
Student Engagement Xchange (S.E.X) Group
16/03/2023
Pillow Talk Salon
Sex Positive World
11/06/2023
Neurosculpting Workshop: Cognitive Blueprint Lab
Sex Positive World
07/10/2023
Cultural Spa: Healing Inherited Wounds
Sex Positive World
08/10/2023
Naughty Playoffs
Sex Positive World
19/01/2024

Conferences

Puberty dependence of (AVP) expression in the BNST and MeA (Social Behavior Circuit) [Poster]
Kinsey Institute 75th Anniversary Research Symposium
06/09/2022
Challenging Amatonormativity: Re-introducing the Hidden World of Biology [Poster]
AASECT Conference
14/06/2024
The Witchy Archetypes: Sluts, Lesbians and Hags | Unraveling Societal Biases in Reproductive Choice [New School Webinar]
Let’s Talk About Sex Conference
23/08/2024
Journey Through Time: Sex and LGBTQ+ Tales and Imageries from Ancient India [Scholarly Presentation]
Kink Between The Lines Conference
27/09/2024
Challenging Orientalism: Confronting Sexualization of Belly dance [Scholarly Presentation]
ABSC International Lecture Series VII
17/10/2024
Chromvolution: The Adventures of Pink [Scholarly Presentation]
ABSC Spring Roundtable Series X
22/04/2025
The Neuroscience of Pain and Pleasure: An Exploration into BDSM [Scholarly Presentation]
Kink Between The Lines Conference
07/11/2025
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Groups & Societies

Equitable Care
Zepp Wellness Center
Regina, SK, Canada
Sex Positive SF
Sex-Positive World
Portland, OR, USA
Research Fellows Group
Community-Academic Consortium for Research on Alternative Sexualities
College Park, MD, USA
Sexual Coercion/Aggression and Prevention Special Interest Group
The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
New York, NY, USA
Learning Management Systems (Portal)
BDSM Reimagining Inclusion Through Equity
Stockholm, Sweden
Curriculum Development (Program)
BDSM Reimagining Inclusion Through Equity
Stockholm, Sweden
Tantra Special Interest Group
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Chicago, IL, USA
Somatic Sexuality Professionals Special Interest Group
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Chicago, IL, USA
Sexuality Educators Special Interest Group
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Chicago, IL, USA
Sexuality & Aging Special Interest Group
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Chicago, IL, USA
People of Color Special Interest Group
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Chicago, IL, USA
Minor Attracted Persons Special Interest Group
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Chicago, IL, USA
Medical Sexology Special Interest Group
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Chicago, IL, USA

Email 

nixi@pillowtalkwithnixi.com

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